Discussion 7 The intriguing art of managing tricky behaviours

Next date: Wednesday, 19 November 2025 | 10:00 AM to 12:00 PM

Presented by Mark Le Messurier 2022 SA Senior Australian of the Year

Discussion 7: The art of managing tricky behaviours, kindly and effectively

This workshop introduces the practical skills to help our kids move in the right direction. The reason for this workshop is that sometimes, when we become battle weary and can’t see the wood for the trees, we forget the subtle and effective techniques. Instead, we jump straight into tell-offs, shouting and threats.

I will take you through 3 critical stages. The FIRST STAGE begins at the clever ‘art’ of REDIRECTION. This is an efficient style that guides a child’s behaviour from the unsuitable to the more suitable. A method perfect for younger children, but one that can be refined for teens too.

The SECOND STAGE is, how to HOLD YOUR CHILD ACCOUNTABLE, while remaining calm and kind. I admit – this takes awareness and courage otherwise we can easily become victims to our own heightened emotions.

Finally, STAGE THREE. How to apply a CONSEQUENCE. I prefer EDUCATIVE CONSEQUENCES because they are free of punishment, and again, we deliver them with kindness and connection! It is a call to be at our most respectful when, sometimes, they are at their least. We try to feel affection for our kids, when they are being stubborn, argumentative, even oppositional. In this space, we hold a child or teen accountable using an almost ‘counterculture mindset’. One that connects leadership and strength, directly with kindness. I’ll remind you, that you are on your LEARNER PLATES, so cut yourself some slack!

Everything you do is for the first time, and because of this, it’s natural to feel there is a lot at stake in the hot and heavy moments. Please be kind to yourself. You never have to be perfect. Your willingness to improve and tweak things is enough.

DISCUSSION GROUP SESSIONS

Wednesday 19 November, 10am - 12noon

Fullarton Park Community Centre, 411 Fullarton Road, Fullarton

Cost: Free, bookings essential.

For more information contact the Centre on 8372 5180 or email fpcc@unley.sa.gov.au

Parents can attend personalised sessions with child behaviour expert Mark Le Messurier throughout 2025, as he presents a different parenting topic each session. Numbers will be limited. Participants have the opportunity for discussion and to raise their own issues. Book one, a few or all sessions. We ask if you reserve a place in these free sessions that you do your best to attend. We are unable to cater for children in these sessions.

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Fullarton Park Community Centre, 411 Fullarton Road, Fullarton, 5063, View Map